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To celebrate the 5 years of the blog in 2016, I lent myself to the game of questions and answers thanks to a form set up in January to answer in March. This month, you have again been curious and I failed to answer all the questions. I've selected five. I got some for which I had already answered the previous months, as to whether we had children or how we met. Well then ! We do not follow ? It's not good !

Many questions were of a very personal nature, band of small curious ! I don't answer questions about where I live, what is my job (this is the reason for blurring) and we do not have the means to make a tour of Europe or the world of porn movies and libertine encounters.

Our libertine practices… mentionable or not

Alfred interferes : What's in your life people know your libertine practices and strut your stuff : families, neighbors, colleagues, friends… ?

Our friends are all Libertines or know our practices. They are few, less than ten. We're pretty wild, or even bear, and sorted our friends on the pane ! You already know the majority : Badgegirl and her husband, ELYSA Exhib and Enrique, Couple_plans on Wyylde, our Belgian friends.

Neighbours should be aware, because we're often naked in the garden and I go out regularly in sexy outfit : high transparent, miniskirt, stilettos… After, We don't get swingers at home, Apart from our friends, We're not partygoers and difficult neighbors !

My current co-workers do not know our libertine practices and strut your stuff. They know that we bathe naked, It is widespread in the region and many of them do. I work in an environment where sex has really no place. In a previous post, where I stayed five years, I gave him two colleagues that I was close. I need just to have confidence to reveal and I'm inherently suspicious and independent, my confidence is really hard to get. MrSirban has entrusted our practices to 4 his colleagues, become friends with time.

My family is Catholic practitioner. It doesn't help them hit with games that they probably wouldn't understand. It's out of respect more than by taboo. Our families (reduced to my mother, a brother and a cousin of my side and a father and a child on the side of MrSirban) are therefore not aware.

Oops ! Grilled !

Lucas two : Despite all your precautions, have you ever been “unmasked” by relatives, professional colleagues or members of the family ?

Geode234 : Despite the blurring of the face of the photos, aren't you afraid to be recognized by your colleagues ?

Alfred interferes : Have you already been recognized on the street or the family, colleagues nevertheless ?

Yes, It already happened to be unmasked by a work colleague. He recognized me because of my record Wyylde. Coincidentally, It was not the most self-effacing and discreet. I knew that big mouth and very boastful. I did everything for him sticking a doubt. Another colleague, who was aware of our practices of libertine and strut your stuff, had been seen to reason with him so that he does not disclose anything. That day, I had hot ! Similarly, MrSirban has already been outed by colleagues to 2007-2008. We had to lay low for a few months : judgment of our naughty site, radio silence on dating sites…

In the street, It already happened to me to be recognized also sometimes. This is often because of my Wyylde card or my outfits. People then ask me very kindly and sheepishly : “Excuse me, you wouldn't lover Lilli ?” or “I think have recognized you”. It's very weird !

In another, MrSirban found his two colleagues at Cap d'Agde, that he had not seen for a long time. The advantage, We know why we're here and we're all in the same situation.

Number of reports by week

Xdetras : As tanta actividad sexual tienes a week ? I think that most philosophy to live having sex, Pero por experiencia is me he dado cuenta no necessarily're asi.

What is your sexual activity per week ? Many think you live all the time with sex, but by experience, I realized that this was not necessarily the case.

My sexual activity per week depends very much on the pace of our respective jobs with MrSirban. Sometimes we come home late, to be on the move, to be slashed everything simply. On average, It's 4 times per week when working. On vacation, It's 6 or 7 times a week, every day or almost.

Lilli on a daily basis

Stéphane : What kind of woman in everyday life outside the licentiousness? ? Are you dressed rather classic and wisely or feminine and a little sexy ? Are you much flirting ? How was your sex life before he met MrSirban ?

I'm going to work everyday without panties no bra. I am often in jeans or leggings with wedge shoes work days. I walk a lot, about 8 km each day, It's as much for practicality than my health. As soon as I go home at night, I swapped my compensated for my high heels, I hate to be flat. The days where I do not work, I am very feminine : miniskirts, high transparent, stilettos systematically. I'm changed every day. Even when I woke up at 6: 00 I never overlook the beauty layout. Work or weekend day, I monopolize the bathroom for less than half an hour : tooth washing, shower, shampoo (every day), hydration, makeup, blow dry, dress up. I made a permanent hair removal to the pulsed light, so no problem with hair !

In the street, a lot of men look at me with insistence and smile at me. Little approached me, because I do not have good air. I am wild and suspicious. My sex life before MrSirban was classic. I had two partners before him with a non-libertine sexuality. The first, I was twenty and forty. I lived in Paris intramural and him going on 6 months in England, 6 months in France. We loved sex outdoor : toilets of the Grand Rex, Tuileries garden, corridors of City Hall, Vincennes Zoo… Where the urge took us, Let's fuck ! Distance and age difference were right the couple. With the second, a Belgian, We had 2 years apart. It was “screws tight and distrust”, He was jealous. He is annoyed when a man looked at me, was my braces if they fell, criticized my skirts “too short” and my heels “too high”. Pain and sex, very conventional ! He was well hung, the penetrations were always painful, He said that the problem was me. I didn't have the experience to understand that it was due to the size of the machine. I noticed just prior to him going and with him, It hurt ! It lasted a few months. And then, After 4 or 5 months of celibacy, There is a MrSirban !

Doctor Love

Valounie : Very in love with a libertine… I'm not. We lived 2 years of a beautiful love with a lot of arguments, but a vanilla love. He went to find his libertine world. I lost the man I loved. Do you think that he can get back to the reason ?

I think that licentiousness is a way of life, a different conception of sexuality that departs from the classical scheme of the couple where the spouses have exclusive reports. Do not see this as a loss of reason, but rather a difference of opinion about your sexuality. It's a State of mind. If you were arguing a lot around this topic, It's that it was likely to be difficult to leave the middle of libertinism. Have you ever tried this universe that he loves so much or simply wanted to see out of curiosity ? In licentiousness, the feelings never enter a game, It's an exchange of sexual pleasure between consenting partners, a world of fantasies that can be achieved. There is no jealousy, trust in each other is total because there is no deception or duplicity. This isn't an adulterous report, We need to discern sex and feeling. This is may be on this point you encounter difficulty.

Bratak : How to get a shy woman to become a woman very sexy and very exhibitionist ?

If your wife is shy, It's maybe because she lacks confidence in her. I would advise you to reassure her on her looks or character traits that can please. It can also be blocked from a traumatic event, that patience and dialogue will be key words to unblock. It should be about a foot of estale to make it feel valued and beautiful. You can watch exhibitions sets sites and bring this practice as a desire to share. You can start by games like go out without panties and down a few times so that it shows (even if only you see) or even, ask him to take off his pants in public place (a restaurant toilet, Parking, car). Or, go out without a bra with a high semi-transparent, where you could see her nipples pointing for example. These are small challenges that may be a good start. After, If she's shy, He can't go against his nature and especially not arguing to change, It could be fixated and heard you could more nothing.