In licentiousness, protect themselves and know the risks : It is crucial and vital ! AIDS and STI (sexually transmitted infections) continue to plague among the world's population and kill. There is even an increase in sexually transmitted diseases in France : people are less vigilant.
Our practices can be considered at risk in the middle of the libertine and yet, We put all the chances on our side not to fall sick sexually. We are hyper vigilant in this regard and we never deadlock. Fun, Yes ! Being sick, No !
We respect basic rules : mandatory condom ; No oral or vaginal ejaculation ; not blow job if suspicion ; No fingers. It's a question of safety ! When I see girls practice oral ejaculation (take the sperm in mouth) or the wife (sperm dripping sex or anus), the danger is increased. Even if the partners are tested, Risk is a reality.
From the moment where we have a plural sexuality, We have to accept the idea that There is no such thing as zero risk :
- the condom can crack and put at risk
- the skin and hair from the pubic area may contain germs of disease
- during a report protected, Awards can tap on the perineum or the clitoris and carry STI
- unprotected fellatio or cunnilingus have an increased risk if gingivitis, caries, canker sore…
Your best ally : do regular tests at least every three months, or even every month and a half For more safety.
Sex in serenity : do track you !
Screening is very important, because it lets you know if you can coquiner serenely without the risk of infecting anyone. The multiplication of partners multiplies the risk, be vigilant.
FIND A SCREENING CENTRE NEAR YOU (Source vih.org)
It's FREE and ANONYMOUS – On-site, You will meet infectious disease physicians, Nurses, sexologists, Carers… specialized in STIs and HIV. On site and free of charge : consultation, test, condom, lubricant, PREP…
- Rapid tests in screening facility :
There are rapid tests readable 20 minutes after blood test the fingertip, but the time to get a reliable result after a report at risk is 3 month. These tests are in Center of screening or in an association and are anonymous. They allow to detect HIV, but also hepatitis C.
Attention ! These rapid tests are only AIDS or hepatitis C, they will not tell you if you are infected with another STI (Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Herpes, Papillomavirus…). To diagnose an STI, It will take practice exams with your family doctor, gynecologist, urologist… (read the article on the diagnosis of STIs).
- Self-tests bought in pharmacy :
They detect that HIV and absolutely nothing else. Gold, There is HIV which can rot your sex life, sexually transmitted diseases are legion. They work with a holder to use the fingertip. We get the drop of blood on a test strip, placed in a tube containing a reagent. We wait 20 MN and we have his response. Attention : for the test to be reliable, It should be performed three months after the report at risk. You got a report at risk and go buy an autotesteur overnight pharmacy persuaded to be quiet ? Well no ! You need to repeat this test three months after to have a reliable response.
The right gesture : According to a report at risk, visit to the emergency room or your doctor for the procedure to follow. He may be able to set up a treatment until a reliable test results. The self-test sold in pharmacies is not enough and do not detect HIV three months after risk taking.
I borrowed the table below on the site SexoSafe. It is clear and well done, you need to do is follow the table to understand !
The directory of testing close to home centers !
All our reports are protected : the condom is mandatory !
Not be sure before three months, This does not suit me. I would prefer not to have a report at risk. Even with a recent HIV test, I do not practice barebacking. It is out of the question. The few people who tried in libertine club or in the evening were made clear. The only two men to take me without a condom are MrSirban and his marriage witness, because we practice regular tests and do not bareback (report unsafe) outside of us four : Badgegirl and her husband, MrSirban and me, Badgegirl husband and I. I don't run any risk in this topic. Health is a valuable asset with which do not play.
I never take the sperm in the mouth or on my sex from a stranger
If you want to come in my mouth, the condom is mandatory ! The only one allowed is MrSirban.
All my bukkake/showers of sperm are done only on the face (mouth shut) or the body. If a poorly educated fool enjoys in my mouth : I spit all over it, MrSirban yelled at her, We report it to the owner of the club that excludes it and go do a test in the week following my mishap, renew by another test in the coming months. It is very restrictive for me. I think bite the next, because this disrespect of the libertine rules annoys me at the highest point. Sperm can contain diseases like : Chlamydia, AIDS, Papillomavirus, Syphilis, Herpes… A small lesion in the mouth can lead to rapid contamination due to a small wound (Gingivitis, bite, energetic teeth brushing, canker sore). By accepting the enjoyment on the body, the sperm goes in the open air and bacteria or viruses are eliminated in contact with oxygen. By prudence : Don't lick the sperm from a stranger is also a measure of safety !
Sucking bareback risk, but it is low. To avoid contamination, do not have small wound in the mouth (canker sore, Gingivitis, bite, burn…). Knowing my oral condition, I always look at the sex of my partners before sucking them. If I see a button, an alopecia areata, a crust…, I refuse categorically. It is also one of the reasons for which I refuse to be blindfolded. Wash your teeth just before the report can irritate your gums and create small areas likely to be contaminated. Better to have less fresh breath but not to create micro-lesions in the mouth.
Even the partners that I see regularly, several times a year, have no preferential treatment :
the hood is always mandatory and oral/vaginal ejaculation is always prohibited.
It's all wrong
Misconceptions forget !
- AIDS is conveyed by all the liquids secreted by the body
The virus is carried only by :
- the blood
- the sperm
- the meat or liquid seminal pre
- vaginal secretions
- breast milk
Should not be a wound in contact with one of these five fluids. There is a real risk of contamination.
Other body fluids like sweat, saliva, the tears, urine cannot infect you.
- The spermicide to do not use a condom !
Absolutely not, the spermicide just kill sperm, but in any case the viruses and bacteria responsible for STI and STD. It is a contraceptive, This isn't a barrier against disease.
- I practice the withdrawal, so no need to use a condom !
The withdrawal is not enough, because the sperm is not only vector of disease. We also find the STI and STD in body fluids : the meat in the men and women liquid.
- My condom broke, What do I do ?
That the rubber has cracked before ejaculation or after ejaculation, the risk is the same, because sexual diseases are also transmitted by fluids (meat, love juice, blood) and not just by the sperm. He will have to do a test with your partner, to make sure you have caught anything.
- Kiss a person is dangerous, I'm going to catch AIDS !
AIDS is not transmitted through saliva, even a deep kiss with the tongue runs no risk. On the other hand, other diseases can be caught kissing someone, like herpes, strep or Mono (called also the kissing disease).
- Too eager, I'm not protected me, for a one-shot, I'm safe !
At least we're dating partners without condoms, the more we increase the risk of contamination. However, one report even unprotected, even very brief, may be enough to be contaminated. There is not to eyebrows, the condom is mandatory.
- The blood of the rules is healthy
The rules are made… blood ! Oral sex or take his partner without a condom during menstruation if she is infected is high risk. Blood car AIDS and STIs and the rules are not cut off, they are composed of the same blood present in the rest of the body. The risks are real.
- An infected person has enjoyed in my mouth. I spit it out, It's good !
Sperm contaminated coming into contact with the mucous membranes of the mouth during ejaculation represents a very high risk of contamination. It increases even if you have a small wound, type inflammation of the gums (Gingivitis), Angina, canker sore, bite… It must be quickly test ! That's why I refuse categorically that men enjoy me in the mouth. It's a question of safety. Women ejaculation in the mouth in the libertine evening play Russian roulette !
Because it is always important to remember and no exceptions should never be made :
Protect yourself ! Take cover !
You should never ignore, even in the excitement or precipitation, even if put a condom can disband or cause less sensations. It's not worth risking your life for a few minutes of pleasure !
More information on communicable diseases sexually and practices at risk here :
AIDS Info-Service : all about testing in 30 minutes
AID : the reference in the field
AlloDocteur, the opinion of Michel Cymes
STI Info : the Government site
4 thoughts we “[Sexo] Screenings and transmission of HIV and STIs”
Thank you. Very enriching and clear, responsible, and empowering ; even though we (My partner and I) We are already aware of the essentials because it is still a useful reminder, Especially since we are rather tempted by polyamory, And the no limit is somehow also part of our fantasies ; No slap in the face, no strangulation or that kind of delirium, but still strongly excited by our projections where the reports would be regular, bareback, with the same partner, except that indeed, as you say so well and so simply : It's not worth risking your life for a few minutes of pleasure…
Thank you very much Olivier ☺
Yes, It is important to remember the risks taken in the libertine milieu, Because sexuality is recreational and plural. This multiplies the risks if you do not put a little of your own to preserve your health and that of others..
For no-limit, it is practiced only with one man : Our wedding witness. He himself sleeps only with his wife, who does not practice hoodless.
I invite you to remain faithful to the same partner of which you are totally sure. Beware of tests, they give a state at the moment T. There is currently a resurgence of STIs, Because people protect themselves less than before.
BisouxXx and take care of yourself ♥
Hello lami lover,
I read your advice, But I would like to know you have managed to protect yourself from herpes during all your libertine games., knowing that it is transmitted through the skin. On the other hand you will do and GB with Adeline and she swallows and seems to take more risks than you in her videos. Don't you worry about contracting an STI with her?
Hello Kikuk ☺
I've never had herpes in my entire life. It depends on the organism but mine seems insensitive to it like two-thirds of the population. I protect myself in the same way for all STIs : No ejaculation in the mouth, not blow job if suspicion, No fingers, no brushing your teeth before a naughty part… For the gangbang with Adeline, We do not have the same practices and each of us will do what we like to do, We are free of our desires ! If she wants to take the sperm in the mouth, it will, but I won't be..
BisouxXx ♥