To celebrate the 5 years of the blog in 2016, I lent myself to the game of questions and answers thanks to a form set up in January to answer in March. This month, you have again been curious and I failed to answer all the questions. I've selected five. I got some for which I had already answered the previous months, as to whether we had children or how we met. Well then ! We do not follow ? It's not good !
Many questions were of a very personal nature, band of small curious ! I don't answer questions about where I live, what is my job (this is the reason for blurring) and we do not have the means to make a tour of Europe or the world of porn movies and libertine encounters.
Our libertine practices… mentionable or not
Alfred interferes : What's in your life people know your libertine practices and strut your stuff : families, neighbors, colleagues, friends… ?
Our friends are all Libertines or know our practices. They are few, less than ten. We're pretty wild, or even bear, and sorted our friends on the pane ! You already know the majority : Badgegirl and her husband, ELYSA Exhib and Enrique, Couple_plans on Wyylde, our Belgian friends.
Neighbours should be aware, because we're often naked in the garden and I go out regularly in sexy outfit : high transparent, miniskirt, stilettos… After, We don't get swingers at home, Apart from our friends, We're not partygoers and difficult neighbors !
My current co-workers do not know our libertine practices and strut your stuff. They know that we bathe naked, It is widespread in the region and many of them do. I work in an environment where sex has really no place. In a previous post, where I stayed five years, I gave him two colleagues that I was close. I need just to have confidence to reveal and I'm inherently suspicious and independent, my confidence is really hard to get. MrSirban has entrusted our practices to 4 his colleagues, become friends with time.
My family is Catholic practitioner. It doesn't help them hit with games that they probably wouldn't understand. It's out of respect more than by taboo. Our families (reduced to my mother, a brother and a cousin of my side and a father and a child on the side of MrSirban) are therefore not aware.
Oops ! Grilled !
Lucas two : Despite all your precautions, have you ever been “unmasked” by relatives, professional colleagues or members of the family ?
Geode234 : Despite the blurring of the face of the photos, aren't you afraid to be recognized by your colleagues ?
Alfred interferes : Have you already been recognized on the street or the family, colleagues nevertheless ?
Yes, It already happened to be unmasked by a work colleague. He recognized me because of my record Wyylde. Coincidentally, It was not the most self-effacing and discreet. I knew that big mouth and very boastful. I did everything for him sticking a doubt. Another colleague, who was aware of our practices of libertine and strut your stuff, had been seen to reason with him so that he does not disclose anything. That day, I had hot ! Similarly, MrSirban has already been outed by colleagues to 2007-2008. We had to lay low for a few months : judgment of our naughty site, radio silence on dating sites…
In the street, It already happened to me to be recognized also sometimes. This is often because of my Wyylde card or my outfits. People then ask me very kindly and sheepishly : “Excuse me, you wouldn't lover Lilli ?” or “I think have recognized you”. It's very weird !
In another, MrSirban found his two colleagues at Cap d'Agde, that he had not seen for a long time. The advantage, We know why we're here and we're all in the same situation.
Number of reports by week
Xdetras : As tanta actividad sexual tienes a week ? I think that most philosophy to live having sex, Pero por experiencia is me he dado cuenta no necessarily're asi.
What is your sexual activity per week ? Many think you live all the time with sex, but by experience, I realized that this was not necessarily the case.
My sexual activity per week depends very much on the pace of our respective jobs with MrSirban. Sometimes we come home late, to be on the move, to be slashed everything simply. On average, It's 4 times per week when working. On vacation, It's 6 or 7 times a week, every day or almost.
Lilli on a daily basis
Stéphane : What kind of woman in everyday life outside the licentiousness? ? Are you dressed rather classic and wisely or feminine and a little sexy ? Are you much flirting ? How was your sex life before he met MrSirban ?
I'm going to work everyday without panties no bra. I am often in jeans or leggings with wedge shoes work days. I walk a lot, about 8 km each day, It's as much for practicality than my health. As soon as I go home at night, I swapped my compensated for my high heels, I hate to be flat. The days where I do not work, I am very feminine : miniskirts, high transparent, stilettos systematically. I'm changed every day. Even when I woke up at 6: 00 I never overlook the beauty layout. Work or weekend day, I monopolize the bathroom for less than half an hour : tooth washing, shower, shampoo (every day), hydration, makeup, blow dry, dress up. I made a permanent hair removal to the pulsed light, so no problem with hair !
In the street, a lot of men look at me with insistence and smile at me. Little approached me, because I do not have good air. I am wild and suspicious. My sex life before MrSirban was classic. I had two partners before him with a non-libertine sexuality. The first, I was twenty and forty. I lived in Paris intramural and him going on 6 months in England, 6 months in France. We loved sex outdoor : toilets of the Grand Rex, Tuileries garden, corridors of City Hall, Vincennes Zoo… Where the urge took us, Let's fuck ! Distance and age difference were right the couple. With the second, a Belgian, We had 2 years apart. It was “screws tight and distrust”, He was jealous. He is annoyed when a man looked at me, was my braces if they fell, criticized my skirts “too short” and my heels “too high”. Pain and sex, very conventional ! He was well hung, the penetrations were always painful, He said that the problem was me. I didn't have the experience to understand that it was due to the size of the machine. I noticed just prior to him going and with him, It hurt ! It lasted a few months. And then, After 4 or 5 months of celibacy, There is a MrSirban !
Doctor Love
Valounie : Very in love with a libertine… I'm not. We lived 2 years of a beautiful love with a lot of arguments, but a vanilla love. He went to find his libertine world. I lost the man I loved. Do you think that he can get back to the reason ?
I think that licentiousness is a way of life, a different conception of sexuality that departs from the classical scheme of the couple where the spouses have exclusive reports. Do not see this as a loss of reason, but rather a difference of opinion about your sexuality. It's a State of mind. If you were arguing a lot around this topic, It's that it was likely to be difficult to leave the middle of libertinism. Have you ever tried this universe that he loves so much or simply wanted to see out of curiosity ? In licentiousness, the feelings never enter a game, It's an exchange of sexual pleasure between consenting partners, a world of fantasies that can be achieved. There is no jealousy, trust in each other is total because there is no deception or duplicity. This isn't an adulterous report, We need to discern sex and feeling. This is may be on this point you encounter difficulty.
Bratak : How to get a shy woman to become a woman very sexy and very exhibitionist ?
If your wife is shy, It's maybe because she lacks confidence in her. I would advise you to reassure her on her looks or character traits that can please. It can also be blocked from a traumatic event, that patience and dialogue will be key words to unblock. It should be about a foot of estale to make it feel valued and beautiful. You can watch exhibitions sets sites and bring this practice as a desire to share. You can start by games like go out without panties and down a few times so that it shows (even if only you see) or even, ask him to take off his pants in public place (a restaurant toilet, Parking, car). Or, go out without a bra with a high semi-transparent, where you could see her nipples pointing for example. These are small challenges that may be a good start. After, If she's shy, He can't go against his nature and especially not arguing to change, It could be fixated and heard you could more nothing.
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♥ Bisouxxx
Rooooh I love this format !!
Thank you my lovely Lilou ☺ A what I see you like me… curiiiiiieuse !
Hello lover Lilli, It's really very nice this franchise on the different facets of your life, and you to fully live your life of libertine, I envy you. For my part, It's much less obvious. I've been married 26 years, I'll have 50 years, in a month and conventional sex get tired more. In my youth, I lived before I met my wife, a few Kinky experiences : 2 women and me or 2 men (including me) and a woman. It's still extraordinary experiences. I stayed wise, Since 23 years, and more recently, I increasingly want to relive these situations of pleasures, but my wife is very much against and do not at all share, My promiscuous tendencies. It's really very hard, to feel alone and misunderstood, It is a real torture on a daily basis. I went 4 or 5 times, libertine clubs in my travels, but it has happened only once, and in the evening, to meet a couple that I liked. Bad luck, I drank 3 whiskies, and fatigue made the rest of the work, that is to say that I was not operational, but I was still able to give pleasure to this lady, with my hands and my mouth. Accompanied by her husband, We gave a lot of fun and I also took. I think about it often and miss me it terribly. That's, confession made. Kisses, Lover Lilly, and thank you. A +.…
Hello most ☺
I understand perfectly, I think that I have a hard, now that I've known the pleasures of libertinism, to return to a classic and standard sex life.
I'm sorry for you that your wife is frankly unwilling to attempt the voyage, has she at least agreed to go and have a look at the club ? This could show her that it is not at all creepy and that respect for the Woman takes precedence over everything else, since it is she who decides everything.
I wish you new experiences, maybe in a club from time to time with couples that you'll like. Seduction is an integral part of libertinism.
Big kissxxx and thank you for your testimony ♥
Hi Lilli,
Thank you for answering my question so kindly and sincerely.
J’aime beaucoup ta tenue pour aller à Jardiland 😉
Comment est ta relation avec tes collègues féminines si tu en as ?
Vous avez une complicité, vous partagez quelques confidences coquines ?
Bisouxxx
Hello Stéphane ☺
Avec plaisir ☺ Je l’a trouvé sympa et originale ♥
Je ne travaille qu’avec des femmes, il n’y a aucun homme au boulot. Je m’entends très bien avec mes collègues, on est complices, mais elles ne connaissent pas mes pratiques libertines ou mes exhibes. Elles savent juste que je me baigne nue, comme elles le font également. Elles sont très protectrices avec moi, car je parais plus jeune et fragile que ce que je ne suis vraiment.
Big bisouxxx ♥
Tres sympa votre site
Merciiiiiiiii beaucoup ♥
J’avoue que je ne regarde pas souvent les articles des autres, mais là je suis tombée sur le tien via un de tes #Followers et je dois dire que la curiosité ma piquée 😉
Franchement on en apprend beaucoup sur toi/vous et je trouve ce genre d’article très passionnant, merci à toi de prendre le temps de répondre à tes lecteurs.
Gros bisous et vite vite messieurs, d’autres questions 😉
Coucou Kmille ☺
It's like you, ça me pique dès fois, je vais consulter avec plaisir d’autres sites. C’est souvent le week-end, quand le temps me le permet.
Thank you very much ! Certains coquins peuvent se poser des questions parfois et tout est explicable, sans tabous ou gêne.
Big simple ♥
Always interesting read some personal prospective!