[Confinement J23] Oldies 2004, BDSM's first steps

Containment, J23 ♥ Sun sun !

The awakening goes by without the slightest hitch and the weather looks beautiful. I #8217 have the famous midweek flemmingitis and take my time to read Stephen King while enjoying a cup of tea. I don't start telecommuting until late, around 8:30 a.m.. Motivation is in the heels and I #8217 have all the trouble in the world to stay focused on the tasks to be done. Fortunately, I #8217 been productive the last two days, because it smells like the day “Without” ! My Loved one also has a hard time getting started, but is more concentrated and less dissipated during the morning.

We have lunch in the garden around noon and while he plays Animal Crossing half an hour, I enjoy a #8217 sunbathing while chatting with BrownSugar34 on What-#8217;s App ! Serious questions arise as to the merits of #8217 to go to Cape #8217 Agde this summer, if this #8217 proved possible, however,. We fear that the virus will circulate in libertine clubs and saunas exponentially in view of the promiscuity of the bodies and by ricochet is found in private libertine parties. We have time to see. It won't be until 30 July if we are ever allowed to take time off this year and there nothing #8217 is less safe.

Motivation #8217 still not returned to the #8217 afternoon. I wait for the day to end by trying to avoid the distractions of the house as long as it can. My Aimé ends around 6 p.m.. We're in mode. “love to love” tenderness hugs. We want to do : snuggle up to each other on the couch lovingly, and do nothing of the evening ! I invite you once again to the naughty attic with a photo series from June 2004.

The division of the month into a fortnight is only a common thread. We don't impose it. It allows everyone to bring their little naughty touch according to their desires and sexual fantasy of the moment. There is no driver of sexuality, one that always goes towards the other by initiating the carnal part as is sometimes the case in couples.

At the time, we had designed a website on Flash and Dreamweaver and we had integrated a tab “Bdsm”. We were frankly practising more than we do today. We were going to club SM. MrSirban took pleasure in staging the humiliations of submissives and I delighted in leading the masochists hardened by years of practice. Passing years, I can't tell if we've grown tired or if we've evolved simply, but we no longer frequented this environment.

We are both dominating. My Man is Master D/s (Dominance/submission). I'm Domina S/m (Sadistic/masochistic). We'd have to switch between (role reversal, The Dominant becomes submissive and vice versa). We no longer attend clubs outside of an evening in Cap d'Agde in the Clair Obscur in the summer and it is not systematic. We continue to practice among ourselves only, MrSirban being switch. On my side, I can't find the slightest pleasure in submission. So I'm his sex toy when he's in his fortnight. And it thrives us and suits us very well. We found the beautiful balance satisfying our mutual and shared pleasures.

And on your side : Have you seen your sexuality change over the years ?

We have also seen an evolution in the libertinism. With the passing years, tastes become more refined and more precise. Formerly, we used to play shows with single men without going any further or triolism. These are now very anecdotal or forgotten practices. We've always let our desires.