[Against AIDS] Sidaction, 1er to the 3 April

No, AIDS is not a bad joke of April, as STI (sexually transmitted infections) By the way ! These diseases continue to plague among the world's population and kill. There is even an increase in sexually transmitted diseases in France : people are less vigilant.

Our practices can be considered at risk in the middle of the libertine and yet, We put all the chances on our side not to fall sick sexually. We are hyper vigilant in this regard and we never deadlock. Fun, Yes ! Being sick, No ! We respect basic rules : mandatory condom ; No oral or vaginal ejaculation ; not blow job if suspicion ; No fingers. It's a question of safety ! When I see girls practice oral ejaculation or the wife (sperm dripping sex or anus) swinger club or evening private, I am shocked by the danger they face. Even if the partners are tested, the risk remains a reality.

All our reports are protected : the condom is mandatory !

Even with a recent HIV test, I do not practice barebacking with a stranger. It is out of the question. The few people who tried in libertine club or in the evening were made clear. There are now readable quick tests half an hour after the blood, but the time to get a reliable result after a report at risk is 3 month (against 6 weeks for a conventional blood test). The only two men to take me without a condom are MrSirban and his marriage witness, married to Badgegirl, because we practice regular tests and do not bareback (report unsafe) outside of us four : Badgegirl and her husband, MrSirban and me, Badgegirl husband and I. I don't run any risk in this topic. Health is a valuable asset with which do not play.

I never take the sperm in the mouth or on my sex from a stranger

If you want to come in my mouth, the condom is mandatory ! The only one allowed is MrSirban.

All my bukkake and showers of sperm are only on my face (mouth shut) or on my body. Sperm can contain diseases like : Chlamydia, AIDS, Papillomavirus, Syphilis, Herpes… A small lesion in the mouth can lead to rapid contamination, It can be a small wound as gingivitis, a bite or a canker sore. By accepting the enjoyment on the body, the sperm goes in the open air and bacteria or viruses are eliminated in contact with oxygen.

Sucking bareback is a very low risk. To avoid contamination, do not have small wound in the mouth. Knowing my oral condition, I always look at the sex of my partners before sucking them. If I see a button, an alopecia areata, a crust…, I categorically refuse to suck. It is also one of the reasons for which I refuse to be blindfolded. Wash your teeth just before the report can irritate your gums and create small areas likely to be contaminated.

Even the partners that I see regularly, several times a year, have no preferential treatment : the condom is still mandatory and prohibited oral/vaginal ejaculation.

Conventional wisdom : What to forget !

The spermicide to do not use a condom !

Absolutely not, the spermicide just kill sperm, but in any case the viruses and bacteria responsible for STI and STD. It is a contraceptive, This isn't a barrier against disease.

I practice the withdrawal, so no need to use a condom !

The withdrawal is not enough, because the sperm is not only vector of disease. We also find the STI and STD in body fluids : the meat in the men and women liquid.

My condom broke, What do I do ?

That the rubber has cracked before ejaculation or after ejaculation, the risk is the same, because sexual diseases are also transmitted by fluids (meat and squirt) and not just by the sperm. He will have to do a test with your partner, to make sure you have caught anything.

Kiss a person is dangerous, I'm going to catch AIDS !

AIDS is not transmitted through saliva, even a deep kiss with the tongue runs no risk. On the other hand, other diseases can be caught kissing someone, like herpes, strep or Mono (called also the kissing disease).

Hurry this time, I'm not protected me, for a one-shot, I'm safe !

If it is obvious that at most we frequent partners without condoms, the more we increase the risk of contamination, never forget that a single very brief same report can be enough to be contaminated. There is not to eyebrows, the condom is mandatory.

Because it is always important to remember and no exceptions should never be made :

Protect yourself ! Take cover !

You should never ignore, even in the excitement or precipitation, even if put a condom can disband or cause less sensations. It's not worth risking your life for a few minutes of pleasure !

More information on communicable diseases sexually and practices at risk here :

AID : the reference in the field

AlloDocteur, the opinion of Michel Cymes

STI Info : the Government site