[Licentiousness] Our first libertine trio

Today and to celebrate our 15 years of living together and of debauchery with my beloved, MrSirban, I invite you to our naughty attic to make you discover our first libertine in trio… January 2004 ! There are a few time, I asked Twitter followers if they would like to see our very first photo series. A 95 %, the response was positive.

To celebrate our 15 years with you, I had idea to make you discover our very first photo series of 2003-2004 on my blog : libertine meetings and erotic pictures 😋 Would you like ? 😜

-Lover Lilli 🔞 (@AmanteLilli) 10 February 2018

Libertinism has always been part of our life together. We met the 6 February 2003 and during the month of June, I was doing my first steps of libertine in a renowned libertine club of Cap d'Agde, Glamour. The fear I had to find a creepy and disrespectful place gave way to a real sense of freedom and respect. Seduced and conquered, We continued our merry way, at my own pace, without ever forcing one or the other. We did then some outputs in the Libertines saunas in the region, then the 2 November 2003, one fits on a kinky dating site : Netechangisme.

A few days after this important step (It “formalizes” a libertine lifestyle and membership to this “Middle”), We did our first private meeting : a voyeur in a lingerie shop plan, that I'll soon tell you. Currently still, We meet through this, except that now it's called Wyylde. A small underground site competing with the leader at the time, “Swing”, It is today the reference of the libertine Middle !

We do not have innate or absolute knowledge, but this approach has worked for us. So let me advise you. We have always made progress by following my desires, MrSirban is never anything forced on me and adapted to my progress. He listened to my wishes without omitting his. Debauchery is a common way. We have met some basic rules, who can help you if you are new to debauchery :

• talk freely about your desires, your fantasies, your desires : dare speak you without fear of being judged !
• listen to each other about his misgivings and fears : dare confront your doubts and your fears ! It's normal.
• setting clear limits : not wanting to rush things too fast ; never feel in competition with that either !
• be 100 % honest : licentiousness is not adultery or infidelity, There is no deception, or deception ; everything is desired by each protagonist. Nothing is hidden, It is a shared complicity and mutual.
• the woman is Queen : It must keep pace and it's the partner able to adapt, even if they wish to progress more quickly.
• Libertinism requires patience, Dialogue, complicity and mutual sharing. It excludes the lies and deceit.

Even today, We discuss before and after each meeting libertine. We define our desires, our limits, our hopes. If a new opportunity of rascality : either we get the look, or in case of doubt, We openly wonders. Licentiousness is not a dupe game or a poker game, sharing each other and there is no cheating. It's an enjoyment of body and mind, a distinction must be made between the sexual relationship and the purely carnal sex. We have had a few Libertines falling in love with their partner a night. This is a dangerous game and the couple must be strong and love strongly. This isn't a polyamorous relationship.

Between November 2003 and January 2004, We had two Kinky encounters with couples, to try the female bisexuality and swinging. We quickly realized that MrSirban preferred to see me with another man rather than having fun with other women and that, for my part, bisexuality not seduced me. We we are then oriented looking for men only. In January 2004, We have taken a first important libertine step : our first libertine trio ! The threesome is having sex with three partners : either 2 men and 1 woman, either 2 women and 1 man. This is very common in licentiousness.

Quite honestly, I don't remember this encounter in detail and I will not tell you this trio as I usually do. I'm not a novelist, I'm not making anything on my blog. Our libertine adventures are 100 % real and I'm not going to start today to tell you stories ! 2004, We are a beginner libertine couple and we are frankly less of “Rambos of sex” now. There is still lots of questions, We discover a world where fantasies can become reality and we dare to begin to make some. There are still fears and a whole field of possible to explore ! It begins what !

MrSirban found the excellent idea to develop a naughty game of the goose, with pledges that he created and which correspond to our standard ! The only man #8217 chosen for this first trio is Xavxav on Wyylde. It was his nickname 14 years ago and I do not know is it always libertine. Unfortunately, I haven't found in seeking his record ! We booked a hotel room to House our first antics threesome ! The feeling is great between us and him, We get along very well and he has enough experience to adapt to our side “Novice”. It is not sharp, It fits with our pace and our desires. Whether experienced is a real plus, because it has the ability to adapt. Today, Sometimes we have to adapt to our partners who are less experienced. Riding his hump in licentiousness allows to make fun of the softer more hard and navigate quite easily between these two opposites. When you start, We're often on soft practices and it is normal.

We started our naughty trio by a part of the game of the goose. Wages are chained : be kneeling in a position of submission, do fellatio or oral sex, stay open pending thighs… Our limits are more restrictive than today ' today and I don't Kiss other men than my beloved. Penetration by another man as mine is an important step. It was thought and discussed before at home. It's a mutual desire, We want to live the experience of the trio. A little intimidated at first, Let me quickly take to the game. We are always in touch with my man : at best, touch, holding the hands ; at the worst Visual, We are watching all the time.

My mouth taste for the first time to a different sex than MrSirban, under the complicit gaze. It's terribly exciting. The sex of my man in a hand, as in the other Xavxav, I enjoy. Shyness first leaves room for great excitement. Complicity is at its worst. We feel in harmony. Xavxav is a perfect Playmate.

The feeling being excellent, I'll take a new step : be penetrated by another man in front of my companion ! Having never done this before, We do not know how we live and feel. Everything is a discovery and novelty. The encounter is gentle, There is nothing violent : or spanking, or slapping, or hair pulling… I read of a new field of possibilities of pleasure, I enjoy and I'm far from imagine that ten years later, I would naughty with a good thirty men #8217 ! The threesome is all in our libertine search today. We have become greedy. Our libertine evolution has turned the plurality male (gangbang, Bukkake, plurality) and the cuckolding.

However, sweetness, sensuality and voluptuousness form a perfect combination for a first time. You may wish to better. The sensations are heady and, I'm surprised, but I'm able to enjoy under the blows of kidneys from another. My love is in heaven, He masturbates on seeing me take pleasure and it is, during all the action, at the border of the orgasm. It holds do not enjoy, and wants to make the most of this memorable moment.

The excitement is at fever pitch. We put, Xavxav and me, a few positions : doggy style, missionary and spoon. With MrSirban, our eyes don't let go that very rarely and we share a new and intense pleasure. We love this first naughty trio and the beginner couple we enjoys miles pleasures ! Xavxav enjoys in the condom at the same time with me. Unable to repress his excitement, my beloved has to turn in a cry of happiness. His whole body is traversed downs. We keep, me and my man, a wonderful memory of this first trio ! We could have wished better. Everything is perfect. It had been slow to choose a man on Wyylde and our selection corresponded to our expectations. After this meeting successful, We reviewed Xavxav three times in any. Then, his work took away it geographically from our region and we have more again us.

Fifteen years after, We have traced our libertine road without never to force, force itself or challenge, but simply by remaining accomplices, respectful and honest with us and our partners. We make a point of honor that men sharing our road are also happy that we. These aren't some dildos living, These are some Libertines who desires, desires and fantasy to share. Dare to take the first step of the licentiousness, It's a fulfilling and liberating environment !

Important precision before embarking on libertinism

• You want to discover the libertine environment ?

Take your first steps in a club or sauna, it's reassuring for an approach to libertinism. You can look without naughty and just to get an idea.

• You want to make private libertine meetings (Hotel, at home or at home of rasps) ?

I strongly advise you to register on a dating site specializing in libertinage. Libertinism is neither adultery nor an ass plan. It is beyond a purely sexual encounter, There is a whole human and cerebral dimension. You can meet a libertine without coquinting with. You will rub shoulders with strangers for a carnal exchange or the realization of a sexual fantasy. The risk of not having a bad encounter must be limited. The dating site is secure : registration with bank details (administrators know who you are and can reassemble your exchanges in case of a problem) and a testimonial system to choose serious partners. I advise you not to meet on social networks outside secure places (clubs or naughty saunas, X movies), because the majority of people are nice, but the ability to make a bad encounter is real and you have no way to filter.

There are three serious libertine dating sites that share the libertinage market :

• Wyylde (5 million subscribers)
• WeLibertins (1.7 million subscribers)
• EntreCoquins (1.4 million subscribers)
• Libertic (500 000 Registered) made a breakthrough.

The other sites are anecdotal. It may be more difficult to make a real encounter there. Only the feeling will guide you ! It's a matter of taste and free for you to choose what suits you best. Our choice is based on our seniority in the libertine environment, in 2003 there was only Netechangisme (became Wyylde) and Swing (which seemed to us to be more vulgar) ! The habit did the rest !

All our promiscuous since meetings 2011

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