[Your questions] Responses of April

To celebrate the 5 years of the blog in 2016, I lent myself to the game of questions and answers thanks to a form set up in January to answer in March. It is with pleasure that I present to you the five questions selected for this month ! I couldn't answer all, I got too many ! I was very surprised at the content of the questions asked.. Many were very personal in nature and few relied on our libertine practices.. I automatically dismissed questions asking me where I lived or if I planned to travel in a particular department or region. : I visited my country a lot as a child and teenager. It is obvious that I can not travel throughout France and Europe : I'm not a millionaire ! I live in the same life as you, I'm not a porn star but Madame Tout le Monde, a libertine sharing just for fun and nothing more.

Our meeting with MrSirban

Maître S. : You have a certain age difference between you two. I would like to know how you two met, on what occasion ? Who has seen the other first. In fact, know all about your first moments and whether it is at first sight said you it is the woman of my life (or him ) or if this is done with the time ?

We have twelve years of difference and our meeting was… singular ! It is a bad joke that you made to me in February 2003. At the time had appeared a new technology on mobile phones : Wap, a kind of chat telephone. A smart kid (which I would never name) has left my phone details on the chat. Finding the sassy approach, MrSirban decided to contact this girl, leaving his number to all the world. Very surprise to receive several SMS messages of different men, I quickly realized that I was the victim of a dirty trick.

I don't know why, but I had walked all, except MrSirban. An excellent feeling settled immediately. We discussed each day, first by SMS and email, then by phone calls. We spent hours talking about everything, You are welcome, but also of sexuality, fantasies and licentiousness (completely unknown area that I was referring to be Giacomo Casanova and the Marquis de Sade, be to contemporary places sordid and creepy). Our phone bills were astronomical, more than 500 € per month each (I remind you the time : the unlimited, There was no !). Over the days, then months, feelings have emerged. We knew very well the other inside before you know him from the outside.

We met for the first time the weekend of the 8 may 2003. We spent four days sets. At the station, the physical crush is immediately confirmed for one as for the other : What we feel four months materialize. I immediately felt that I'll do a long road with him. I liked it all : his intelligence, his humor, his passion, his freedom, his madness, his manhood, his quiet strength, his goodness, his kindness, his gaze… all !

We first fell in love with a personality, a character, of humanity, before falling in love with a physical. Since, over the vagaries of life, our love is stronger.

White goose to the hotwife

Mr_Intimement : How MrSirban managed to reveal who you are now ?

Beginning 2003, MrSirban me already about licentiousness. It is a medium which was completely unknown to me, my mother was very devout and having raised me religiously (Catholic school with Benedictine Sisters). He was able to arouse in me the curiosity and envy by being totally open to dialogues and questions that I had. He attended the libertines spheres and BDSM since twenty years and practised the licentiousness in his previous marriage, where practices were rather oriented bi woman. His libertinism was not concealing a fickle man, Since it was not the desire to take other women, which was reassuring for an initiation. What he wanted, It was to take a maximum of pleasure with other people, man or woman, didn't matter it ! It made me confident and my curiosity was the rest.

Since, We talk a lot about our desires. MrSirban is a bottomless pit of fantasies ! His imagination is boundless. On my side, I'm more down to Earth and basic. He likes to push my limits and put me on my side and the challenge, I do not report them only if I like the idea. When I suggest to my side, It measures the degree of feasibility of my desires to give them life. We do never force the other to anything. We do not hesitate to say our doubts and fears when it comes to experiment. If one of us is not too up or if there is any hesitation, We do not have the fantasy. We're very candid and we don't ever force nothing. Everything we do is fully agreed and this beautiful osmosis makes you want to discover more and more parts of sexuality !

Licentiousness and children

Long : Have you planned to start a family ? If Yes, How do you reconcile your lifestyle and family life ?

Romanesque : Do you have children ?

MrSirban has a child from a previous marriage and between us, We have no children. He doesn't want more and that's good, because I never wanted. I intend to make the most of my life in adulthood, catch up with the stolen and lost time related to a difficult childhood. I am very attached to the freedom that I have small. I do not want to impose more constraints on me, I've had enough.

I knew the child of MrSirban when he was 7 years. Reconcile libertarianism, naturism, family life : We are familiar, as custody is shared. He is not aware of our practices of libertine and saw never naked. On the other hand, He knows that we're going to Cap d'Agde summer and we like swimming us naked, because we find uncomfortable swimwear. After, It's about organization, of discretion, vigilance and will : fun when her child is in the shower, sleeps or takes care in his room ; escape time of exits libertines or strut your stuff on the pretext of a never-ending meal between adults for example and the rest of the time, simply enjoy him !

A small café with fans and followers

Darren : Do you/would you allow fans like me to meet with you, for a drink, little cat, flirting etc... lol? I know you make experience with guys you like and have sexual moments goal do you allow other times for quiet moments?

Translation : Do you or do you want to meet fans like me a drink, a discussion, of a boyfriend lol ? I know your experiences with men and sex moments, but is there more quiet moments ?

I've shared moments with my followers with a drink or a meal several times. I love meeting my foo. These are always a great time and helps to put a face, a voice, expressions on a pseudonym. Unfortunately, I can less and less to meet one, because applications became too numerous. It is easier to make meals or Twitter meetings with several fans/followers at the same time. We need to find common niches ! We did it the year last in Avignon, where I met six adorable people around a table (my Twitter in Avignon meeting).

My best and my worst experience

Stéphane : Can you tell us your most unpleasant experience and that the more enjoyable ?

I got lucky not having too many misadventures, We are very careful about the people we meet and it avoids a lot of worries. However, some experiences have not been top ! Addition to those where the Rascal has nothing understood our research and made quite the opposite, There were two really negative experiences.

1. The first goes back to our beginnings, in 2004. We went with a couple and after having dined and chatted, the game has started between us four : preliminary and naughty with gage to the key board games. Then, the woman in the couple is isolated. She seemed ill at ease. The atmosphere was heavy. When we tried to stop seeing that she did not adhere, the man of the couple insisted to continue by saying that everything was fine. We have more saw him again in the evening. She remained locked somewhere in the apartment. She was without doubt not libertine and is forced to please her husband. It's sad, but it happens. The man puts a pressure on his wife until she gives.
2. The other is described on my site (read the article). It was the first time I met only. That has not happened as I imagined. The guy wanted to cancel two hours before, then recanted. Arrival home, He wanted to lock me up : shutters, door with lock and key, for fear that his wife and children don't land. He was not libertine, but adultery… I found myself having to Parley to not be locked in double round at a stranger for a good quarter of an hour. Each of us camped on its positions : He wanted to lock me up, I didn't. I took it to drop the flaps to is, but not that he locks. Compromise reached, the game began and lasted for ten minutes, because he enjoyed very quickly.

1. For the most enjoyable experience, I will say my marriage (read the article). After stopping in front of the Mayor, We returned to the hotel for our wedding and I went immediately to join the witness of my husband in his room. I still wore the ceremony. He took me on my wedding dress. I loved, as it was transgressive, and it wasn't a reenactment. We really did it on the wedding day. It was for me the ultimate experience of the cuckolding, MrSirban could not be more Cuckold at that time. Our wedding will forever burn as a unique moment, In addition to our formal union in front of the Mayor, We celebrated it in our own way, as we wanted and not as imposed by society.