Our naughty practices may seem hard, or extreme. We started libertinism in… June 2003. As you may be right now. We went at my own pace : first the libertine - to see club, then play-, then private parties (couples with bi women, Trios, Mini-gangbang). MrSirban has always adapted to my desires and has never imposed anything..
Dialoguez de vos fantasmes, be honest, you're not hiding anything. Trust is paramount. It is neither adultery, or deception, nor deception. These are the basics of libertinism for weaving a complicit and respectful of the other relationship. We have each(E) its evolution, his fantasies, his misgivings. We are sensitive humans, de tourments et de craintes. Amusez-vous par plaisir. Ce n’est pas une compétition, un défi ou “pour faire plaisir à l’autre car il insiste”. Libertinism is a hedonistic sharing, a state of mind.
Les Maîtres-Mots : Sharing, Benevolence, Respect.
Retrospective : how it all started ?
It all started early 2003. My man told me about licentiousness, a practice which he exercised for twenty years. After d ’ a very Catholic parent, I had never heard. J ’ stayed at the licentiousness of Sade, Title of Laclos, Casanova and #8217 had no idea that #8217 a contemporary version existed. The white goose ! My curiosity did the rest. Reading the magazines (Union, Club South, Swing, Interconnection…) as ’ he left each month on the table made me want to make my own idea on the environment. J ’ always try before you say that j ’ love or n ’ not like something. Even though I #8217 have prejudices of my own, I'd rather try and make my own opinion. We're never better served than by yourself.
Very quickly and before we even lived together, the erotic pictures and small strut your stuff be are invited to our lives. MrSirban sometimes asked me to send him pictures of me, charm, I was free to put me in the scene like I wanted. May St 2003, MrSirban joined me in Paris and I posed naked for the first time in front of his analogue reflex. I had that 22 years.
June 2003, I wanted to go to Cap d'Agde. I l ’ specifically asked, watching this so-called libertinage on glossy paper, between porn chic (Interconnection) and vulgar (Swing), j’avais peur que ce soit sordide et glauque. Il fallait que je vois de mes propres yeux pour savoir ce qu’il en était vraiment. I was afraid to fail to naked me in front of strangers, mais cela s’est fait très facilement. Nudity is everywhere present and becomes natural. The complex jump one after the other. We spent the day at the libertine Beach, then in the evening, After dinner at the Roman Villa (former name of the the Glamour libertine club restaurant), I asked to see a libertine club. My first steps of libertine are made in cuddle corner of this club, where in the basement, I enjoyed me being touched by many hands, several men and a few women. J ’ I a-do-re ! L ’ atmosphere was excellent, good child, joyful, festive. Nobody forced nobody. Girls n ’ were not vulgar matrons and men n ’ had nothing of perv. J ’ felt a sense of freedom from my unique body for the first time.
It is not easy to guess his libertine way, There are so many different pleasures and asked labels. I quickly realized that I preferred men after trying a bisexual experience with a couple. The woman took care of me, But if I had fun, I was unable to.
My Darling quickly positioned as my pleasure voyeur. At the beginning, He was a little : I took care of him and the other man, He was part of foreplay with the other woman but would never penetrate it. Now, It wants even more to do with other women. Nous nous inscrivons pour la première fois sur un site de rencontres libertines le 2 November 2003, Netechangisme, become Wyylde today.
We're groping, on se positionne sur la recherche d’hommes seuls pour tenter un premier trio, to be held in January 2004. As early as may 2004, It increases the number of rogues by making our first mini-gangbang with six Libertines, another couple and softness ! I'm not yet a fan of spanking.
As soon as 2004, either one year after our debut in licentiousness is the desire to share our lifestyle. Designing a small site amateur libertine, in which MrSirban and I ask equally. My man likes to be photographed and immortalized me as it does even today. We are in the same State of mind that now : sharing, complicity, exhibits and debauchery. However, as soon as 2006, We are forced to close because of my beloved colleagues recognized him and it's a big problem. He's on the verge of dismissal.. We keep a low profile on the web until 2011, but the desire #8217 to share is strong. We reopen this first site : new nicks and blurred faces to limit risks on blogspot. Important details : It has never intended to make a business of libertinism, we are very attached to our freedom. We refuse to coerce ourselves in anything. If people paid a monthly subscription, we would feel in the #8217 obligation to show off, libertine meetings to feed subscriptions. This would become a work with constraints, forced moments when the desire is mixed or absent just out of obligation to subscribers. Free #8217 be completely freed from this pressure. Everything you see is done only out of mutual envy. That is, MrSirban AND me. It's fun, sharing without expecting anything else in return than the exchange !
We've focused our search for single men, one by one and then quickly, four or five. Without seeking the sweetness, I did not yet be abused : or spanking, or slap, or insult, No kissing on the mouth… I discovered my own sexuality after having been held back years.
Over the years, the limits have jumped. I liked more manly reports. I started to tell me as sexually submissive in 2009, After having been treated like a real bitch by a group of three rascals (read the article of a good sex party under a camping tent). I had ever taken pleasure in licentiousness and I then turned to more hard reports : less than foreplay, insults, slapping, use of my body…
Currently : more assertive desires
Today, j ’ clearly likes to be “rough ride” When the rascality : slapping, insults, spanking (as the excitement mounts, the more I like them strong, as slapping), hair pulling… My nipples are very sensitive and I don't like it pulls them or pushing them around. I love to be walked on a leash, like a bitch or licking the feet of my lovers. I like to put myself at the service of the pleasure and this is how I take mine : being a sex toy, a sex toy can be used for play and enjoy.
Do a gangbang or the cuckolding, softness and tenderness bore me. Hugs, Kisses, Caresses, I agree with the man that I love and not with a more or less unknown Rascal. I am not at all submissive in BDSM, I am Domina sadistic. My submission is that sexual and does for the same Act. Out of naughtiness, I have a good character and don't expect me to bow to your every desire. I'm neither your bitch nor your slut. ! I know what I like and don't like, j ’ like to try new things to make my own idea. I hate pain, feel it, but I like to give it, offer it.
I appreciate too much foreplay, but I love making. I can stay three-quarters of #8217 hour sucking limbs stretched towards my mouth during our trips “the chain pipes” and “Bukkake”. I trained for almost a year to get the deep throats (read the article : Tips and tricks to get the deep throat). I'm excited to see men enjoying quickly after sucking or masturbating. It makes me shiver with pleasure.
During bukkake or gangbang, I gladly assume my function of empty-balls or garage with dicks. These are terms I have long execrateed : the supreme annoyance that MrSirban could use when he wanted to tease me or get me started at quarter turn. Now, I l ’ use myself in action. Pavlov reflex ? Assume in respect and a reward to the key, a beautiful tail emptying for my greatest happiness.
On my birthday in 2014 (read the article), I liked most of all be degraded, humiliated as never : forced deepthroat, well felt slapping, spitting on face and body (I hate getting spit on it yet), choke, facial, Golden shower. It was the first time that the situation was, I was ready but I asked my likes the agreement. Debauchery is a sharing and should not be imposed. Always be respectful of the wishes and expectations of each protagonist - man, woman, Couple-, it's paramount and it's the basis.
Against all odds, I loved getting pissed on : body, hair, face. For a first with another man, I have not received three drops, but streams of urine which is infiltrating my nostrils. The taste was present in my throat, I was drowned in piss… And liked it a lot, because I had reached a very high level of excitement. A cold, point blank, I am not sure that I agree the query.
We love bringing non-libertins into our erotic games much like the Viscount of Valmont and the Marquise de Merteuil in the novel by Choderlos de Laclos. It's ecstatic, There is a great deal of possible hazards : the man can deflate, the meeting may last only a few seconds, the place of debauchery retained may not work… We have experienced it in September 2015, during a housewarming party non-libertine, where I poached the bartender that I sucked between two Trestles (read the article) and again in December 2016, where I've been kiss in the street by a stranger meet two hours earlier in a bar (read the article). This isn't a standard libertine meeting where we know how this will end, to 95 % chance to bed. Here, nothing is programmed or pre-determined. Adrenaline is up, everything is done on the moment and the feeling of the moment : the chance of meeting, the pleasure of the unknown, the transgression. We call it HOTWIFE meetings.
Soon : blow up limits
Now that I know full well that humiliation and degradation excite me, I greet it with gluttony when they are offered to me. I always hate the pain and in fact, My quote remains exclusively sexual. There are several fantasies I like to do. All tend to this submission, This humiliation :
- wait for the men to pass in a hotel, offered
- undergo a form of public disgrace without pain, for humiliation and degradation
- make the dogging and take care of the men who would come to the window of the car : fact (read the article)
- return to the porn movies, where I'm on the old, wholesale, ugly, hunks… I don't care
- poach non-libertins for unforeseen and non-programmed hotwife plans : fact ! (read the article here or still l ’ article here)
- get caught in inclusion places for this purpose : bar toilet, fitting room, Street… : fact ! (read the article here !)
As you can see, my sexual submission goes through these pleasures : be abused, used… I often encounter the problem to have a physique that contrasts with my desires. D ’ a sweet candor apparent, I like yet be rushed. I am less fragile and delicate than that my appearance suggests.
My submission is that sexual : No clamps, whip, Plug, pain or other… and it only occurs during the Act, Besides I am not at all submissive. In BDSM, I am exclusively Domina sadistic and I not not switch.
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40 thoughts we “Libertine evolution since 2003”
Dear amantelilli …
I'm with you or follow for a long time on Twitter …
I had only rarely on your old site
Coming up on that if I read is discovered your story …
And honestly I took a lot of fun ..
You're clearly the style of woman I would like to have … A true perfect woman but hot naughty slut and submitted … The dream …
I send Mr. Sibyan ….
I would like you to follow me on Twitter … Even though I am not very active
Reveurtic
I'm looking for woman to quench my fantasy …
I love mature women and attracts me a lot
All pretty naughty kisses
Hello Quentin and thank you for your compliments ♥ We like to live our desires and fantasies following the principle that we have only one life and that we must enjoy it as long as we can.
On the other hand, I just don't feel mature at 34 years ! Thanks for the old lol shot ! Je ne suis pas encore ridée ou ménopausée 😀 ! Tout tient en place tout seul et sans coup de main :))
♥ Bisouxxx
Hi you never talk about sodomy you n like it ? damage with a nice little ass and beautiful fessses would you l sensitive anus or the synphert
Hello Lionel ☺
I speak several times :
https://amantelilli.com/couple-libertin-candauliste-cuckolding-gangbang-bukkake-coquin/
https://amantelilli.com/rencontre-libertine-coquine-hotwife/rencontre-libertine-critere-pratique-coquine/
I don't practice anal, It makes me too badly and yet, We tried different ways and nothing has helped.
BisouxXx ♥
Hello
I take great pleasure to read you
and appreciate your franchise
all this reminds me of a part of my personal history
the limits are made to be exceeded
Hello Alexandra, and thank you for the compliments.
Yes, That's right, fantasy mature with age and can break down barriers.
You also practice ?
Bisouxxx
I preferred to discuss more discreetly for more details
I would say that I have had an eventful adolescence
great post, I was curious to see the approach to reach or you are today”today, curiosity , the “I know not if I like if I do not” , my approach to a woman to talk to him of such practices is not easy and it's good to see a couple that has works so well to make these pleasures their creed. J’espere trouver celle avec qui je pourrais partager ca un jour et quand je vois les prochaines limites que tu veux repousser je suis admiratif et ne saurais cacher mon gout et l’excitation qui m’habite quand tu evoques le plan en foret en mode “empty balls” , un fantasme exquis…
merci en tout cas de nous faire partager ca 😉
Merci beaucoup Prettylegs ♥ La sexualité et les fantasmes sont une longue aventure et il faut toujours essayer de progresser, tester de nouvelles pratiques ou de nouveaux jeux. Je trouve normal d’essayer pour dire si j’aime ou pas, sinon ce n’est que préjugé. In any case, je te souhaite de pouvoir vivre tes envies et de trouver ta moitié complice, comme MrSirban qui est à la fois amant, friend, compagnon, copain/pote, confident. ♥ Bisouxxx
merci c’est gentil
je souhaite que ca soit aussi beau que ce que vous vivez MrSirban et toi, bisous 😉
Salut tu es super bandante
Bonjour Montel. Thank you.
Salut tu es de quelle région ?
Je pense que les articles parlent d’eux-mêmes concernant la région : le Sud ^^
Tu devrais te faire attacher nue dans une forêt avec un écriteau : empty balls. Je pense que tu aurais du succès.
On a déjà envisagé de faire un plan plus ou moins similaire, sans être attachée car j’aime garder la liberté de mes mouvements. Seul le temps nous manque, car ça prend du temps à organiser et à trouver les coquins sur Netechangisme.
Hello Lilli,first I want a thank you answer has our comments knowing you have a lot of fans. I'm passive rather that active I find myself on the later as a voyeur,I take a lot of pleasure to watch others do ,your stories make me an attack rare enjoyment. I'm in a relationship and my wife is completely airtight licentiousness and even more the voyeurime,I am therefore forced to hide to live my sexuality……
Hello Bruno.
I find it normal to respond, I'm glad leave me messages and more !
My man also love to watch, It is one of the reasons for which there never wish to take other women than me, malgré les sollicitations et mon autorisation.
Je suis vraiment contente, flattered and honored to provoke you to beautiful pleasures.
Unfortunately, debauchery is a concept that does not seduce everyone. Certain(E)s see some creepy things, disrespectful, the limit of the disgusting, without even conceive that to share pleasures and live out his fantasies the more intimate is a blessing and a way to live his life fully, his desires, without hitting anything. I hope she changes her mind one day so that you can develop you sexually.
Simple ♥
Hi Lili, It is a real pleasure to read you, a libertine as active like you. Have you ever heard of the couple of spermagames in Germany? It is a very good place for a submissive like you, sufficiently frequent, et assez sécurisé sur le plan sanitaire avec test rapide HIV et syphilis à l’entrée pour chaque participant, ce qui peut te permettre de recevoir des ejac’ en bouche ou ailleurs si le coeur t’en dit!
Kisses!
Coucou Eric 🙂
Je ne connais pas du tout Spermagame. On the other hand, je ne pratique pas en barebacking, même avec des tests. Je trouve cela dangereux. Les tests ne sont pas viables immédiatement et il faut un temps certain avant de connaître les vrais résultats. J’aurai trop peur qu’entre le test et la pratique, les partenaires aient contracté une IST. Il y a suffisamment de plaisirs dans le libertinage sans avoir à risquer sa vie inutilement.
Bisouxxx
Hi amantelili I walk your site for a few days and I must admit that I devour! just as I'd like to eat you seeing these exciting pictures! Thank you for these very interesting and exciting to read stories…My wife is just like you start 2003 a novice I wild for maybe one day make him discover the debauchery that I practiced a few years…as I see that you're answering a lot of fans I expect an answer and possibly some advice from your personal experience…don't exchange enjoy anything better in your life you're right, and thank your man to give us this wonderful show…naughty kisses
Cuckoo Venom ☺
I'm very glad to read that my site you please ♥
It is important to take it easy and follow his rhythm to it especially, otherwise you'd risk browbeating her. Is she attracted this universe ? I hope for you, because it is a real pleasure to be able to live his desires and fantasies as a couple. You can already try him out to share little naughty moments with her, by browsing websites for example sets (nothing too hard) or by making small games (like out without panties or having to remove her panties by going to the toilet of a café). It takes well understands that it is the woman who decides everything in this world and that men bend to his wishes, so nothing will ever be done without his consent ☺
Bisouxxx to you two ♥
Hello beautiful lilli
Your excellent site and your stories more
How to know when you'll be on XCenter or a movie star ?
Kiss
Hello master player ♥
Thank you very much ♥☺♥, I'm glad you like it !
I report this on my Twitter, My Netechangisme profile and my site :)) Except for the last bukkake, where I told on Twitter, It was to thank them for being 30K to follow me.
♥ Bisouxxx
UM I love your last picture where
” as the ” Hi pork ” c it says ”
It says empty my balls on your breasts & your belly
I find that so true especially for you
the function 1 era d 1 woman & to empty the guys balls
& so almost disrespectful TABOUX
Fort heureusement que la fonction première d’une femme n’est pas celle que tu lui attribues.
Lorsque je me fais écrire dessus, It remains a game.
Hello,
Je te suivais déjà sur Tw et je découvre ton site ! Il donne envie d’en savoir plus.
Serait tu prête à tester notre nouveau site de rencontres libertines, qui saura te convaincre je l’espère et te trouvera tes partenaires de manière très pertinente.
N’hésites pas à revenir vers moi si ça t’intéresse de voir ça en avant-première 😉
mon tw – exilibertine ou exilib
Nice day !!
Bonjour Exilib ☺
Je suis curieuse de connaître ce nouveau site, c’est toujours bon de pouvoir diversifier ses zones de rencontres ! Adepte invétérée de Wyylde, I also like to glean rogues on Netswing. Why not Exilib so !
Discover the pleasure of you and I hope to be able to meet.
BisouxXx ♥
Hello Lilli, It's a trip to see you…..
MI'd molto conoscerti meglio e year….
Sempre stupenda
Franco, da Roma,
Superb
Hotels Juju ♥
I love your site ! Keep it up !
Hello lovely sexy lady. I follow you on Twitter and I discovered your site . Still feel like you meet. Above you agree.
Hello Thierry ☺
Thank you very much, I'm glad you like my site !
We'll see you can be to Cap d'Agde or the X movies during the first half of August ♥
I read your comment now, je suis désolée pour le temps de réponse pour le coup 🙁
Loves ♥
Coucou amante lilli. Je suit depuis quelque temps votre blog a toi et Mr sirban, et je peux vous dire qu’il est loin de me laisser indifférent. Votre écriture est accessible et fluide. Les expériences que vous partagez dans ce blog, Invites all libertinism discover, which force admiration when is your commitment.
If you allow me to ask you a question, It would be that this :
Why over the blog you emphasize that you do not share your libertine life for profit?
Is this for dissociate you from the porn industry? (My god, what horrible qualifier…) or even, is this to shape a certain public image that occulterais the financial aspect at the time of the production of your content? I would like to apologize in advance if my question seems irrelevant or it offends you, It is not my intention. Is it that of other swingers that you have monetize their public images and does not hide in the slightest. I don't judge anyone of course, but you are at the antipode of these classic character of the libertine world who think it's normal to pay the barge for a photo, an erotic story, a hard video… and so on…
Maybe have already talk you in an article that I have not yet read, If this is the case, would you be kind enough to redirect me to the one above?
That being said, I should like to express my consideration and my respect, that rogues as you should in the “libertinosphere”, I can't wait to read you again and again… Biz
Hello Ryder ☺
Thanks for your comment ♥ I'm flattered you like the blog.
I talk regularly about, because we regularly keep wondering where to buy our videos, the nylons or panties that I have carried, on which platform do a webcam… Suddenly, I ramble on ! Many think that we make money in one way or another with our debauchery, What is completely wrong.
Otherwise, I have absolutely nothing against porn or people living their charms, whether at the level of webcams or a paid form of licentiousness. Everyone does what he wants in his life and there is no gene or be ashamed of. The main thing is to be well in his head and his body.
On our side, We opted for a completely free debauchery. I never want to feel obliged to make the rascality or strut your stuff to feed the paid part of a site or paid nights. We want to be free to do what we want, When and as we want without feeling forced. In our opinion, libertinism makes sense in this freedom. When money comes into play, We're a bit losing this freedom because it becomes a job : to do meetings, photos, because people have paid for a service and have expectations in return… We want just remained free to be us in our sexual fantasy without bind themselves never nothing.
The question does absolutely not offend me and I'm happy to answer.
Thank you for your comment ♥
BisouxXx ♥
Very exciting to read .very good ecrit.j wish why someday meet you.
Hello Amantelilli, the interview published on the blog of Charlie addressed me and read your evolution in licentiousness comforts me in my own way. Curious by nature, I discovered a world, unknown there is still little, en compagnie de mon Amoureux fort expérimenté en la matière, je ne suis pas sûre que j’aurais sauté le pas sans son expèrience. La confiance et la communication totalement libérée m’ont beaucoup aidée, comme toi j’aime me faire ma propre opinion mais j’en menais vraiment pas large lors de la première sortie en club! Et en fait j’ai trouvé cela tellement libérateur et révélateur de nos envies les plus profondes. Ne rien brusquer, se laisser guider par ses envies et prendre du plaisir à partager, en quelques mots notre vision du libertinage. Merci de partager vos expériences. Plaisirs et jouissances 😉
Un bel univers venu de nulle part. Un parcours digne de celui que j ai pu faire connaître à ma soumise Kha. Je comprend tout à fait cette fierté que vous pouvez ressentir, autant l’un que l’autre. Félicitations et bonne continuation.
Maître Paddy Saint Drall
Magnifique évolution en espérant un jour bonne continuation pour la suite respect à vous deux♥️♥️♥️♥️